I'll start this off by admitting my flaws. I am a multitasker in recovery. I have been multitasking free for 6 hours. Perhaps we start a support group called Multitaskers Anonymous? Although I have yet to fully kick the habit, when I am attempting to multitask, I am consciously aware of my decision. Awareness and acceptance. Does this mean I am on the right path?
I know multitasking is not useful and yet it is so deeply engrained in my habits. Multitasking was a term first used by IBM in the 1960's to describe computers. The term started to be used for humans in the 1990's when technology became part of our everyday lives. It was seen as a positive trait and encouraged. I have seen this term used on resumes and job descriptions (to this day)!
Studies have even shown that working moms feel multitasking is a necessary part of their work and home lives.
So, is it a habit to kick or a habit to tweak?
My Personal Journey
In my inaugural edition, I shared the story of my newborn baby in my arms breastfeeding while simultaneously on a client call while simultaneously typing on my computer. I thought this ability was a rite of passage or was me proving to the world I could be a career mom and have a baby. I had childcare 40 hours a week and my husband was (and still is) the most incredible hands-on father. Even with this, I was still in full juggle mode as a career woman and mom.
This exact juggling image was a new reality for me (and it didn't happen only once).
I had mom guilt. I hid internal shame as a career professional. I felt guilty knowing I could not work 100 hours a week solely for my clients. Yet, why should that quantity of hours be a metric of success?
I didn't give in to my baby. I didn't give in to my client. Instead, I accepted 3 or 4 hours of sleep per night as my new normal. I mentally gave myself a rule that if I had 1 hour of sleep, I could technically function the next day. Constant underlying stress and anxiety followed. None of this was healthy.
As a child and teenager, I remember thinking multitasking was a skill I needed to master. I cannot say who encouraged it as it seemed to come from numerous places and was a common term. As a new mom, I truly believed I needed to master multitasking to achieve mom success and work success.
What I did not know are the realities of multitasking are detrimental to our physical health, emotional health, work product, and relationships.
Always the Numbers
The concept of deep work is rather new (made popular by Cal Newport from his book Deep Work) whereas the concept of multitasking goes back much further.
Here is why the habit of multitasking should be kicked once and for all:
Research has shown women attempt multitasking more often than men in a variety of our daily activities including work, home, and leisure. It is not clear exactly why, but there is a societal expectation for women to prioritize caregiving, household tasks, and careers.
These statistics mean that multitasking has a significant impact on our physical bodies and the constant underlying stress could lead to long-term health problems. We must protect ourselves. We must fill our cup. Put our oxygen mask on first. Whatever analogy you want to use. Taking care of "me" is for the health and well-being of our families.
So, what do we do? We wear all the hats. Sacrificing ourselves. But it does not have to be this way.
The Next Step
I personally am working to reduce multitasking and focus on deep work and individual attention. Below is a list I compiled from various professionals and have tried each of them on myself. They work – if I stick to it!
10 Ways to Bring Measurable Improvement
I am in recovery from multitasking. I still slip back into it – daily. But I am consciously choosing a healthier path. One for me, one for my family, and one for my clients!
Filling up the cup,
Helen
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References: American Psychological Association, Journal Computers in Human Behavior (2016), Journal of Occupational Health Psychology (2015), BMC Psychology (2017), Deep Work: Rules for Focused Success in a Distracted World, The Myth of Multitasking, How to Stop Multitasking and Improve Your Focus, Single-Tasking: The Insanely Simple Productivity Hack That Actually Works